Este Haim: Love Lessons from the Rom-Com Queen

In a world where love often feels like a scripted performance, Este Haim is stepping off the stage and into real life, sharing her insights on relationships just seven months after her own wedding.

On August 3, at the New York City premiere of the much-anticipated rom-com One Night Only, Este, the 40-year-old musician and actress, opened up about the lessons she learned from her experiences both on and off the screen.

With a refreshing honesty, she emphasized the importance of continuous effort in relationships.

“Keep pursuing, even if you’re in a relationship,” Haim advised, a mantra that resonates deeply in today’s fast-paced world.

“You should always be dating. You should always be working toward having a better relationship. Relationships are work, and I think people forget about that.”

Este Haim and Jonathan Levin, the tech entrepreneur she married on December 31, 2025, in Ojai, California, exemplify this commitment to nurturing love.

Their journey began with a blind date orchestrated by mutual friends, a reminder that sometimes the best connections come from unexpected places.

While the couple has kept much of their early dating life private, Haim revealed in a June 2025 interview with GQ that their meeting was serendipitous, sparking a romance that led to their engagement just ten months later.

As she reflects on her own marriage, Haim also offers invaluable advice to those preparing for their big day.

“Have as much fun as possible. Just enjoy it,” she said at the premiere of Voicemails for Isabelle, another project she scored with Amanda Yamate.

“I was so overwhelmed [at my wedding]. I mean, I enjoyed my wedding so much. But I wish that I had also just stopped for a second and took it in. I didn’t get to do that.”

Her words resonate with anyone who has felt the whirlwind of wedding planning and the pressure to create the perfect day.

“Just take it in for a second and just have the best time. Have so much fun. All those people might not be in the same room ever again.”

As a performer and a newlywed, Haim knows the value of savoring each moment.

At the One Night Only premiere, she was surrounded by an eclectic cast, including Molly Ringwald and King Princess, but her focus remained on the importance of connection—both in relationships and in life.

“If you’re single, go have fun. You know, we’re on a spinning rock in a vast universe, like, go have a good time, yeah,” she encouraged, reminding us all to embrace the present.

The film, directed by Will Gluck, features a storyline that mirrors Haim’s own philosophy on love and connection.

Monica Barbaro and Callum Turner star as Allie and Owen, two love-starved strangers who find themselves entangled in a night of passion during a fictionalized New York City event where single people are free to explore their desires.

With a stellar supporting cast that includes Maya Hawke, Ziwe, Ben Marshall, and Julia Fox, One Night Only promises to deliver both laughter and heartfelt moments.

As the film hits theaters, audiences are invited to reflect on their own relationships and the importance of keeping the romance alive.

Haim’s journey, both personal and professional, serves as a reminder that love is not just a destination but a continuous journey filled with growth, laughter, and, most importantly, effort.

So whether you’re planning a wedding, navigating a new relationship, or enjoying the single life, take a page from Este Haim’s book: keep pursuing, keep dating, and most importantly, keep having fun.

In a world filled with uncertainty, her advice shines as a beacon of hope for anyone seeking to navigate the complexities of love.

As we continue to explore the intricacies of relationships, let Este Haim’s words guide us: love is a beautiful work in progress, one that deserves our constant attention and care.

So go ahead, embrace the adventure of love, and remember to enjoy every moment along the way.

After all, in the grand tapestry of life, it’s the connections we make and the memories we cherish that truly matter.

With One Night Only now in theaters, audiences are reminded of the magic that happens when we open our hearts to love, laughter, and the joy of being alive.

As Este Haim demonstrates, love is not just a feeling; it’s an art form, one that requires dedication, creativity, and a willingness to embrace the unexpected.

So here’s to love, in all its forms, and to the beautiful journey that lies ahead.

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